Q&A (with Me and Andrew’s solutions this time) + weekending + Coaching recap


When you may’t resolve earlier than your run which shoe to put on so that you convey your closet with you… good factor no person broke a window on my automobile to steal these!

I went with the Alphaflys which might be a bit too small (my race pair arrive quickly!) to assist get my physique extra used to operating in them earlier than October fifth! We did a warm-up for about 6 miles, 5 miles @ 6:37 tempo, 1 mile simple, and three miles nearer to purpose marathon tempo, which was a 6:17, however…

I really feel like, usually, I’ve a reasonably good concept of what time I’ll run for the St. George Marathon, however actually, I don’t know this time. Taking a raffle with this one!

Right here’s how final week went (and now simply 12 days till the race)!

Monday: 10 miles @ 8:28 tempo (was supposed to incorporate cardio threshold miles however I used to be too drained)

Tuesday: Treadmill for 10 @ 8:18 tempo

Wednesday: Mile repeats on the observe and 11 miles complete. 6 x 1 mile (watch cut up occasions… crossed the road about 2-3 seconds after these) 6:14, 6:11, 6:05, 6:02, 5:50, 5:47

Thursday: 10 miles on trails @ 9:09 tempo

Friday: Off!

Saturday: 16 miles!

Sunday: Off!

57 miles for the week!

You understand how the remainder of Saturday appeared…

BYU had a recreation and we have been in a position to go. It began at 8:30 pm and we completed at about midnight so extra caffeine was taken for this endurance occasion than my morning run;)

Skye took a brief energy nap whereas we have been there and Beck powered by means of the entire recreation.

We even acquired to see my nephew for a bit… he’s getting round on crutches so effectively!

Now to reply among the questions that have been requested that concerned Andrew’s solutions:

How is Andrew liking his new occupation? I do know it’s been a few years.

*Andrew: I’m loving it! As an Organ Donation Coordinator each day is an journey. I don’t sometimes know the place I’m going till the morning and even then I could be leaping on Life Flight airplane to a hospital additional away and later that day be on the identical ICU unit I used to work at. I like the schedule, it looks like my work/life steadiness is correct the place I need to be. I like the staff I work with they usually have been so supportive of my skilled growth and my household!!

Now that being mentioned, I see among the worst potential issues I’ve ever seen each day at my job. Working as an ICU nurse I might see these issues, however it was undoubtedly much less widespread. As an Organ Donation Coordinator I’m continuously round dying/trauma and every little thing in between. I’ve come into contact with among the most resilient and wonderful households and people I’ve ever met. Sitting with and watching individuals undergo grief is likely one of the most humbling issues. People are so very robust.

I’ve no regrets altering careers. I believed I might remorse altering Grasp’s Packages (not doing Nurse Practitioner college), however I don’t remorse it one bit.

How did Andrew persuade Ross to enroll in this bike race?

This was fairly simple. I intially tried to guilt journey a few of my associates and allow them to comprehend it was my birthday weekend and I needed them to occasion with me by doing a 50 mile mountain bike race. All of them basically mentioned I used to be loopy. After studying the guide the Consolation Disaster I’ve been in search of methods to get out of my consolation zone. I used to be driving the coach one night time and began considering who could be loopy sufficient to do it and Ross got here to thoughts. I solely needed to ship him 3-4 texts difficult him and telling him how superior it could be. It took him quarter-hour to say sure. I like it!!!

*Janae: I’m sorry, Megan D, for Andrew’s peer stress in your husband. I’m optimistic he has completed the identical to Andrew on shopping for new bikes so not less than a race registration is cheaper than a motorcycle.

What’s Andrew’s favourite and least favourite nursing talent?

*Andrew: I like this query. In my new job I don’t get to do arms on nursing expertise as a lot as I would really like. But when I have been to decide on I might say it’s a tie between two. I beloved the problem of placing in IVs and taking good care of publish op open coronary heart sufferers. Inserting IVs is certainly an artwork and it’s difficult. I really feel like nursing college doesn’t educate this anymore, not less than after I was going to highschool. I might take any likelihood after I was working bedside to put IVs, though I used to be by no means pretty much as good because the ER nurses and now I’m horrible. As for post-op open coronary heart sufferers, I beloved them. They might be troublesome sufferers as a result of they might be in cardiogenic shock and the surgeons would basically order no matter we needed to have the ability to deal with them (orders for fluids, pressors, and many others.) and we had to make use of our vital considering on why a affected person wasn’t doing effectively. These sufferers all the time appear to be excessive stress/excessive depth which I beloved and miss now.

Christmas reward concepts for the massive youngsters?

*Andrew: I all the time discover items that I’ll get pleasure from with them. Final yr we acquired them skateboards and I used to be so stoked to have the ability to go skate with the children outdoors collectively. I like giving them stuff that may assist them of their passions. Proper now our large youngsters are so enthusiastic about soccer so I like to provide them stuff that will get them extra excited to play extra. When you all haven’t discovered it by now, I nonetheless have mentality of a 14-year-old, so I like all their presents proper now, as a result of I’ll be proper there with them taking part in and having enjoyable. Different random issues that I like that my youngsters love too: GoPro Cameras, something bikes wins my coronary heart, tenting gear, climbing gear, rockets or something that goes quick or flies, enjoyable video video games – my youngsters LOVE Zelda on the swap, projectors for film nights outdoors or out within the mountains, skis, and the rest you’ll find at my favourite retailer ALS.com – this isn’t sponsored – they similar to to take my cash.

How do you encourage one another?

*Janae: Andrew has supported and motivated me in some ways since day #1. I lastly acquired that sub-3 as soon as I met him! But when we’re going to be trustworthy right here, haha, we’re additionally fairly horrible at motivating one another;) We’re each continuously making an attempt to inform the opposite particular person to skip out on work/operating/biking to hang around and be lazy collectively. I’m not happy with this behavior however not less than it’s enjoyable.

*Andrew: I shouldn’t have learn Janae’s reply to this earlier than I wrote my reply. I have to confess there are occasions I attempt to get her to skip a run early morning to hang around with me and we will all the time run later (she doesn’t like operating later within the day). However Janae helps me a lot!! I like the biking world and he or she is all the time asking me about my each day exercises and supporting me after I’m telling her I’m fascinated about doing a couple of races or I would like a particular factor for biking.

Favourite factor concerning the different particular person?

*Janae: Andrew’s humorousness. He could make me chortle so exhausting; it’s ridiculous. I like how enjoyable he makes life. He’s so adventurous and all the time up for a problem or to go BIG on something that may convey the children and me pleasure (i.e., Halloween… my youngsters informed us they like Halloween greater than some other vacation, together with their birthdays;). I’m rather more of a routine and type-A character, and I like how he has introduced out a extra enjoyable facet of me. He doesn’t need to sit again and have life move him by… Does anybody keep in mind when he used to work the night time shifts on the hospital purely as a result of he had a lot FOMO of lacking out on issues with everybody in the course of the days? He loves life.

*Andrew: I’ve many issues I can say however nobody needs to learn that novel. I like Janae’s compassion for others. I all the time discover her speaking to everybody and all the time constructing them up. It doesn’t matter whether it is somebody new within the grocery retailer, new reader to the weblog, a pal she hasn’t seen since highschool, or our neighbor, or our children, she is all the time there and connecting with individuals. She needs everybody to be heard and supported. It’s a tremendous high quality. I additionally love our humor collectively. Typically we’re simply laughing and teasing one another forwards and backwards and its a enjoyable option to dwell collectively!!

Recommendation for newly married {couples}?

*Janae: I’ve many ideas jumbled up right into a paragraph. Bear in mind that you’re on the identical staff. Our greatest aha second was realizing it was us in opposition to the issue… not him vs me. Most issues we’ve had could be solved by getting extra sleep, consuming one thing, going out into nature, or making time to be simply the 2 of us… It’s simple to assume that large adjustments should be made to be completely satisfied, however in actuality, we’ve discovered that merely taking good care of ourselves and one another makes marriage a lot extra seamless and FUN. We tease one another rather a lot and actually attempt to preserve issues enjoyable… It feels flirty, and we chortle much more that manner, so sustain the belongings you have been doing in relationship now that you’re married!

One final thought, It’s a lot tougher to be completely satisfied and train that muscle in our brains than it’s to be depressing. Being depressing is the best route. Being completely satisfied takes work however runners love a problem. Selecting to be completely satisfied and discover pleasure within the littlest issues could make a world of distinction in marriage.

*Andrew: I don’t know if there may be something that ought to enable me to provide recommendation. I simply learn one thing that I beloved, “Encourage Happiness.” I believe this goes for any type of relationship. Be the particular person others flip to, be the largest advocate for them, love exhausting, it requires work however is all the time so value it. Janae is actually my finest pal – there isn’t a one I prefer to tease and love extra. Life is enjoyable when make it that manner!!

Recommendation for getting by means of divorce. My husband of 25 years simply left me.

*Janae: My coronary heart is damaged for you. I can not even think about. 25 years of constructing a life with somebody for him to depart. That is horrible. My greatest recommendation is to provide your self the entire time potential that it is advisable heal. Really feel what it is advisable really feel now and provides your self the grace to expertise every stage of grief. I keep in mind planning one thing every month to stay up for. Spoil your self when you can. Lean in your family and friends. Cry. I keep in mind going to the films all the time helped me to really feel an escape for a couple of hours when issues have been actually exhausting. Dive into new passions. Rediscover your self and what brings you gentle. I’m all the time right here if you wish to chat.

Each day, I might remind myself that the solar all the time comes up. Each single day, irrespective of how darkish it will get at night time, the solar all the time comes up. I didn’t know when it was going to return up or after I would ever cease feeling lonely BUT I knew that it needed to come up. Hope actually acquired me by means of these darkest years.

*Andrew: I’m sorry – this hurts so dangerous. I additionally very insufficient to provide adviceo on this. That is by far the largest trial I’ve gone by means of and it doesn’t go away. However there may be happiness on the market. I’m certain every little thing is so darkish, you would possibly really feel damaged, and also you don’t know what will occur subsequent. Some days its simply survival. It will get a lot better, sadly it is a journey a few of us undergo. Discover those that love you and lean on them and discover hope within the issues that you simply get pleasure from most. Get one thing on the calendar that you’ll stay up for and discover little bouts of pleasure in something you may to make it by means of!

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Anybody need to reply any of those questions?

Inform me a spotlight out of your weekend?

Do you keep up in a while the weekends or preserve it the identical?

What’s your Monday run?

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